For me, the church has always played a pivotal role in providing a spiritual and moral compass. But it was also the place where I discovered a genuine community of support outside of family: A community that helped me to grow and develop as an individual and most importantly, recognize God’s purpose for my life. 

Today, I can reflect on the many valuable life lessons learned and the lasting bonds of friendships that have significantly impacted me both personally and spiritually. Those lessons and trusted relationships have been instrumental in offering a faith-based outlook and approach to various aspects of life. Whether it’s parenting, family, ministry, friendship, work and even life’s difficult moments. 

Therefore, I will ever be grateful for my church experience and the profound opportunities it offers for communion with God, a first-hand witness to the Spirit’s transformative work in my life and the lives of others and the chance to grow together with people who aren’t perfect, but willingly rely on God, who is perfect, to make us into His likeness. These experiences fortify my faith, commitment, and devoted love to Christ and His kingdom mission. 

Captain Kendacy Barnes, West Nyack, New York 

How can I stop comparing myself to others and find contentment in who God made me to be?

Comparison often robs us of joy and peace. True contentment comes from embracing who God created us to be. Instead of measuring ourselves against others, we can rest in the truth that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14, NIV). God has designed each of us with unique gifts and a specific purpose, and His plan for us is good. 

Contentment grows when we shift our focus from what others have to gratitude for what God has given us. By celebrating our own journey and trusting in the work God is doing in our lives, we can release the pressure to measure up to someone else’s path. True satisfaction is not found in achievements or comparisons but in relying on God and aligning with His purpose for our lives.

Through prayer, we can ask God to help us see ourselves through His eyes and replace feelings of inadequacy with confidence in His love. Our worth is not defined by how we compare to others but by the fact that we are God’s creation, loved unconditionally and called according to His purpose.

Captain Elyse Doborwicz, Oklahoma City, OK