In short, if the church is doing its role, and I’m leaning in as well, the church’s relevance within my life feels natural. 

I often hear leaders saying that we, the church, need to be more relevant. However, in those statements, they’re often loaded with intentions of flashy lights and social media strategies. Where there could be, and is, a place in the church for both of those things, they don’t create relevance. 

I have also heard the other side of the story. Why can’t church be more relevant to the things I like? Like wants and hopes for the perfect church that meets that specific person’s interests and vibes. 

Relevance, however, is about relationship. Not flashy elements and niches; these are outpouring responses from having a mutual relationship. 

Church always becomes more meaningful to me when there are people who intentionally seek to connect with me in relationship. 

The struggle is found when the church or I hope that vibes match, losing relevance in the process. 

Captain Joshua Hubbard, Roseville, MN

What do I do if I don’t have it all figured out? Like my career path, who to date, etc.?

Young adults face an immense amount of pressure to have everything figured out! One day, you’re a child and used to being told what to do, and the next, you’re an adult and supposed to know how to navigate life and make these really huge decisions that will set the course of your future.

Despite the pressures society puts on you to have your life mapped out with 10-year-plans and vision boards by the time you’re old enough to drive, God will, most likely, reveal His plans for you on a different timeline. 

But as you wait, here are some things you can do! Stay close to Jesus, continue praying and seeking direction for even the next small step you need to take, surround yourself with people who love God and can provide guidance in these early adult years. Be open to new people and new experiences. Above all, seek to live a holy life, even before you know what the whole of that life will look like. 

If you’re unsure of what your future holds, take heart. You’re still in the process of becoming — growing into adulthood, into your future self, and into the person God created you to be.

Major Jamie Spalding, Bristol, TN