As I think about this question, I am immediately reminded that division is not of God! Christ came to bring us together, united through a gift none of us can earn: salvation. This gift is for everyone, no matter their culture, class, race, traditions, or background. In Him, our differences don’t define us; His redeeming love does!

Therefore, though our world is filled with polarizing politics, social unrest, and cultural conflicts that can stir up anger, confusion and division, our ability to love cannot be shaped by these worldly influences, but by our higher calling in Christ! While the world pushes division and conflict, we must remember that our real enemy isn’t each other. When we’re divided, we only give Satan, the true enemy, a foothold to bring destruction and defeat among us.

The mission of Christ must stay front and center — and it is best fulfilled when God’s people stand united against the chaos of this world. Disagreements will happen — that’s just a part of life. But no matter what, love must endure. Jesus makes the command clear, “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31, NIV). This love is shown through kindness, compassion and respect for others.

So, when the world feels divided, may we embrace the tenacity to love beyond our differences and disagreements — allowing the Lord to guide our hearts and His Spirit to purify our convictions — because He’s the one who will bring true justice to the chaos in His perfect time.

By Captain Kendacy Barnes, Brooklyn, NY

My friends moved across the country for college. How can I stay in touch with them without feeling left out?

As an officer (pastor) in The Salvation Army, and also once an officer’s kid, I have moved around my entire life. It isn’t easy to say “see you later” to your friends. But when our relationships are rooted in Christ, we can lean on Him to keep those friendships strong, even when we are miles apart. Staying in touch with friends who have moved away is challenging. Christ gives us strength for every season of change (Philippians 4:13). 

Setting intentional rhythms — like a weekly call or sharing photos — can help you stay connected without feeling overwhelmed. You can also share experiences while many miles apart, whether that’s watching a show together, working through a Bible study, or praying for each other regularly. Scripture reminds us that “A friend loves at all times” (Proverbs 17:17a, NIV), and distance cannot break a Christ-centered bond. When feelings of being left out comes up, bring them honestly to God, knowing He cares deeply for your heart (1 Peter 5:7). It also helps to build community where you are, trusting that God has a purpose for placing you in this season (Jeremiah 29:11). 

As friendships evolve, remember that Christ holds them together with His perfect love (Colossians 3:14). Even from afar, He can strengthen your connections in meaningful ways.

By Captain Abby Milner, Stuart, FL