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How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to Other People?

"When we compare ourselves to others, we risk losing sight of God’s unique plan for our lives."
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Comparing ourselves to others diverts our focus from appreciating the unique gifts and blessings God has given us. Instead of being grateful for our own talents and opportunities, we might feel inadequate or envious of others, which steals our happiness. This comparison can lead to dissatisfaction and bitterness, causing us to miss out on the goodness in our own lives.

Galatians 6:4-5 reminds us, “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load.” This passage encourages us to focus on our own journey and responsibilities, rather than measuring ourselves against others.

When we compare ourselves to others, we risk losing sight of God’s unique plan for our lives. Instead of pursuing someone else’s dreams, we should remain centered on our own path. True contentment and joy come from our relationship with Christ, not from comparison.

Jesus is our ultimate example of humility and contentment. He did not compare Himself to others, and neither should we. By fixing our eyes on Jesus and trusting in God’s plan, we find genuine joy and fulfillment. To break free from comparison, seek contentment in Christ, celebrate the blessings in your life, and trust that God has a unique and beautiful plan for you.

Remember, true joy comes from knowing that we are perfectly loved by God and walking in His purpose for our lives.

Captain Amanda Keaton, Jackson, MS 

How do I balance school and my faith commitments?

Balancing school and faith commitments can feel challenging at times, but it’s absolutely doable with a little planning and purpose! Start by remembering that your faith is a source of strength and peace, not an obligation. While other responsibilities and commitments may compete for our time and attention, staying connected to the Lord should always remain our first priority. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus reminds us to “seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (ESV).

Remember that it is okay (and totally normal!) to care about things in addition to your faith. School is an important step towards future pursuits and plans. It should be approached with intentionality, discipline and a desire to “work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord” (Colossians 3:23, NIV). We are each unique in our experiences, responsibilities, passions and stresses; but what we do share is the privilege of being God’s children and the call to pursue God’s kingdom and love above all else. Be assured that if you put Christ first in all that you do, He will guide and provide for you as you give your best to the other important life moments along the way.

Captain Katie Tripari, Cleveland, OH

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